Let (sn) be a sequence of sets sn of rational numbers q such that for n=1,2,3,...
sn+1=(sn∪ {q | n<q≤n+1})∖{qn+1}
with s1={q | 0<q≤1}∖{q1}
and q1=11,q2=12,q3=21,q4=31,... the positive rational numbers indexed by Cauchy-diagonalization of the matrix of positive rational numbers.
The set sn contains the rational numbers of the interval ≤n which have not got an index ≤n.
When investigating this case for all natural numbers, we get two limits, one for the sequence of sets and the other for the sequence of cardinal numbers:
limn→∞sn = { } is indicating that no rational remains without index.
limn→∞|sn|=∞ is indicating that the set of rational numbers without natural index has infinitely many elements, not only for every sn but also in the limit.
My questions: Why is the first limit considered more reliable than the second one? Has the second limit a mathematical meaning? If so what is it?